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in Episodes on July 20, 2015 by The Mom Hour

What Does ‘Free-Range Parenting’ Really Look Like? Episode 12



We want our kids to grow up independent, resourceful, and confident. We also care about their safety. So where’s the balance between letting them go and protecting them? And what happens when our ‘risk-tolerance’ is out of synch with the neighborhood norms? Meagan and Sarah discuss all this and more in Episode 12. This is part one in a two-part series on free-range parenting – be sure to check back next week for the continuation of our discussion!

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  • Lenore Sknazy’s Free Range Kids website (and book, and TV show)
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    • 6 Ways To Encourage Free Play, Create Stronger Communities, & Raise Safer Kids
    • Parenting As Though Tomorrow Will Always Come
  • Books by Gavin de Becker
    • Protecting the Gift: Keeping Children and Teenagers Safe (and Parents Sane)
    • The Gift of Fear and Other Survival Signals that Protect Us From Violence 

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  1. Karen W says

    July 28, 2015 at 1:17 pm

    Great episode! My goal has always been a “free range parent” with my kids, but I do let my fears get in the way much too often. They are 3 and 6, so we are working on it daily. I want them to be independent, and this episode had some great information.

    Reply
  2. Krista says

    September 15, 2015 at 9:04 pm

    I like your definition of free range parenting, much better then the neglectful parent definition I’ve heard in ‘news’ blurbs. I can definitely relate to the blurring of irrational crowed fears and my own actual fears and trying to separate them. I want my kids to be capable and self sufficient. Great show!

    Reply
    • Sarah Powers says

      September 16, 2015 at 7:56 pm

      Krista, thank you so much for this comment! We are so glad you found this helpful!

      Reply
  3. Shannon says

    May 10, 2016 at 9:59 am

    I came across this episode after letting my 10 year old spend a good part of Saturday pretty unsupervised at a local ball park with two of her same age friends, while soccer and baseball games were going on. My anxiety can often get in the way, but my goal is for her to be fairly independent by sixth grade, so she can get herself to and from school and supervise herself until I get home. I’ve got a 4 year old too, so my 10 year old is totally my practice child as I try to stay away from helicoptering and work toward a bit of free ranging. Love your podcast!

    Reply
    • Sarah Powers says

      May 10, 2016 at 1:11 pm

      Shannon, thank you for commenting! It’s funny, I almost appreciate that anxiety sometimes, and work to live through it and still let them stretch their wings. I think it’s so great you have some goals and are working toward them. 🙂

      Reply
  4. Shasta says

    December 15, 2017 at 2:02 pm

    I know this episode is super old, but as a brand new mom (17 weeks pregnant!) I’m going through all your archives :). Around 28:10, Megan talks about a book about kids taking care of themselves- I think you’re talking about “The Girl who Owned a City” by O T Nelson. I loved this book as a teen, and I actually recently bought it just because I wanted to read it again.

    Anyways, I just wanted to mention that. I love the show!

    Reply

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