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in Episodes on February 26, 2019

Birth Order, Siblings, And Families Of Origin: Episode 197

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Meagan’s a youngest, Sarah’s a firstborn, and between us we have eight kids (not to mention a bunch of grown siblings ourselves). In Episode 197 we share insights into sibling relationships from little to grown, what it’s like raising a kid whose personality is similar to yours, and how our families of origin continue to influence our parenting styles–PLUS some fun and little-known facts about us and our kids that we haven’t shared before!

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Links we mentioned (or should have) in Episode 197:

  • What Fresh Hell podcast’s episodes on similar topics: Why Are Our Kids Such Total Opposites? Episode 68, Middle Kids – Episode 93, and Birth Order- Parenting Each Child Best (More or Less) – Episode 13

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  1. BA Haggerty says

    February 27, 2019 at 7:14 pm

    I recently discovered your podcast and I am loving it! Loved the part of this episode where you talked about name pronunciations. My daughter’s name is Kerry, and it was fun to hear the different ways people say it. We are from the Philadelphia area, and we say it the way you pronounced the “Boston area” one. I will say I’ve heard an additional version…pronounced like “curry,” which I am not a fan of!

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Every so often, Sarah and I take a week to record Every so often, Sarah and I take a week to record what we call A Week of Real Life Dinners. We try not to over-plan, or over-perfect during those weeks...it's a week of REAL LIFE dinners, after all, not "best-case-scenario" dinners, or "wishin-and-hopin" meal plans, or "Instagram perfect" menus.

Recently I've been trying hard to make better use of our leftovers, because throwing away food makes me sad, and grumpy, and also poorer. And coming up with brand new meals every night of the week is a lot more work than coming up with meals two or three nights of the week.

See all that food in that yellow Tupperware container (passed down from my mom, by the way!)? That's the leftovers AFTER feeding the whole family. We definitely have enough for another whole night. Tomorrow I'm making an 8 lb pork shoulder. Ummm, I think we're going to have plenty to get us through the weekend. Hopefully I won't forget about it and have to figure out how to dispose of long-forgotten meat later. (Ask me what I did with the LAST pork shoulder that didn't get finished off...)

Those question marks on the menu board for Friday and Sunday are just that: questions. I have no idea what we'll eat those days. I often won't know until the day of. But unlike ten or fifteen years ago, I've finally acquired the kitchen skills and confidence to know that on those "question mark" days, I can reach into the fridge, pull out ingredients, and cook up something resembling Real Food for my family.

It all takes time. And lots of trial and error...and yes, tossed-out, forgotten-about leftovers along the way. But every day, every week, I do a little better and know a little more. Ten years ago, a week of Real Life Dinners may have been frozen peas and chicken nuggets. These days, it's just as easy for me to braise a roast or roast a chicken. But I'm still learning, just like everyone else. One question-mark meal at a time. -M

(Want to join in our Week of Real Life Dinners? Record what you REALLY make and eat, not what you HOPE to, for the week of March 8-14 - just a quick description is fine! - and email to hello@themomhour.com. If we can, we'll incorporate YOUR Real Life Dinners into the show!)
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There's a link in our bio that'll take you to the survey, or you can pop http://themomhour.com/suvey into a browser and find it there. The survey is anonymous, the questions are quick and easy (no essay questions!), and your answers help us understand our audience, your listening habits, and what kind of content would help you best in the months ahead. Thanks so much for taking the time to help us help you. 💛
New Voices episode up in time for weekend listenin New Voices episode up in time for weekend listening!⠀
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Kendra Adachi is @thelazygenius. Either you know and love her already, or you're about to. Kendra's principles for finding YOUR best middle ground between perfectionism and giving up are helping moms everywhere decide what matters, ditch what doesn't, and get stuff done. In this month's Voices interview Kendra joins Sarah to talk about how Lazy Genius principles got put to the test during the early months of the pandemic, how moms in the trenches can be gentler on themselves and still feel fulfilled, and why acknowledging the season you're in just might be the key to enjoying it. PLUS, Kendra helps Sarah solve a frustrating home management issue using The Lazy Genius method in real time.⠀
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I (Sarah) shut the computer and drew with my daugh I (Sarah) shut the computer and drew with my daughters tonight while we listened to the exciting conclusion of “From The Mixed Up Files Of Mrs. Basil E. Frankweiler” on audiobook. It felt good. ✏️ 📖 🔊
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Whether schools in your area are open in-person, on a hybrid model, or fully remote, chances are that March is looking different than September did. And believe it or not, we're already looking toward the end of the year. In Episode 302 Meagan and Sarah share how our own kids are doing at this point in the year, what's changed and how school has evolved in our respective communities. We also offer validation for those who worry about kids' academic progress this year, and our hopes for finishing out the year on a positive trajectory.⠀
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Friends, meet Renly. Renly was 5 or 6 months old Friends, meet Renly.

Renly was 5 or 6 months old when our family got him back in 2013. He was adorable - and high-strung, jealous, and skittish around boys and men (a real problem in a house full of boys-becoming-men.)

I made an offhand joke on a recent episode - something about "getting rid of" a dog because he wouldn't stop sleeping in our bed.  That wasn't the real reason, but the episode wasn't about animals, so I decided not to elaborate further.

But after getting a really angry review (pictured) I figured I'd set the record straight here.

As I mentioned, Renly was high-strung and jealous. If I didn't pay enough attention to him, he'd "punish" me. One notable time, he jumped up on my dining-room table, looked me straight in the eye and pooped.

That was bad, but the deal-breaker was that Renly kept biting little boys and men - specifically, on their butts and privates. 

After doing a LOT of searching, I connected with a young couple who had just gotten the OK to get their first pet. They fell in love and had the time to give Renly what he needed. Everyone was very happy, perhaps Renly most of all. 

As much as Sarah and I joke about our "dog ambivalence", we are both responsible and caring dog owners. I won't personally say "dog mom" as that is not how I relate to my pets.  My older dog Moxie isn't my child, but she IS treated like a well-liked roommate. And I think that's OK.

It is fashionable these days to go from zero to outraged in seconds, based on very limited information. But there are two rules I'm making an effort to adhere to in my life: "assume positive intent" and "don't jump to conclusions." Usually, it's the big picture that tells you what you need to know about someone, and a small, offhand moment doesn't (or shouldn't, anyway) override the broader view.

Just remember, every joke someone tells about their bad experience with a dog may have come at the expense of the gnawed butts and testicles of several little boys, a pooped-on tablecloth, and a busy mom at her very wits' end.

Adorable, abominable Renly...who knew I'd still be talking about you all these years later? -Meagan
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